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May 31, 2008 7:55 am
Mood: shy, 535 Views |  | You see how a puppy
cries when you try to
leave him in the
backyard while
shutting the door of
your house? The
helpless puppy will
scratch and scratch
the closed door while
crying but could do
nothing to open it.
same goes with
unreciprocated love
when keep on trying,
keep on scratching...
but still.....
The door remains
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| Blog..... |
Apr 7, 2008 5:26 am
Mood: sexy, 944 Views |  | Nobody wants to hear this
but sometimes..
the person you want the most
is the person..
you're better off without..
This is so true!
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| USER FRIENDLY JERK!!! |
Mar 24, 2008 8:10 am
Mood: cheerful, 1601 Views | Not all people that's good
to you are true to you as well.
So learn to weigh things; be
vigilant enough to secure what's
yours, provide boundary to your
conversation.
Because you'll never know when a
pretending good person turns into
a deceitful and
USER FRIENDLY JERK!!! | |
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| I ONLY WANTED YOU.........I LOOKED BACK |
Mar 18, 2008 11:22 am
Mood: lonely, 1204 Views |  | A thousand words won't bring
you back I know why cause I tried.
Neither could a thousand tears I know
cause I cried you left me with a broken
heart and happy memories too but I never
wanted memories I only wanted you.......
I know we came to the point where we have
to turn our backs from each other so we
can move on...
but there's something I want you to know;
just about the time you turned away from me
I looked back............... |
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| MISSING YOU SO MUCH!!! |
Mar 16, 2008 2:11 pm
Mood: lonely, 1096 Views |  | I've really missed you and you know that.....
I cannot change the past;
I just need to keep
the good memories
and acquire wisdom
from the mistakes I've made.
I cannot predict the future;
I just need to hope and pray
for the best and what is right,
and believe that's how it will be.
I can live a day at a time,
enjoying the present
and always seeking to become
a more loving and better person.
Things might look a little cloudy now,
but they'll get better soon.
Just remember that it's true:
It takes rain to make rainbows,
lemons to make lemonade,
and sometimes it takes difficulties
to make us stronger and better people.
The sun will shine again soon....
I love you very much!!!!
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| FACTS OR OPINIONS???? |
Mar 16, 2008 11:17 am
Mood: sexy, 1074 Views | Most advice we receive are opinions, not facts. Just cause someone cares doesn't mean his opinion is right.Deal with just the facts...
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| Keeping the Passion of Love Alive!!! |
Feb 16, 2008 7:54 am
Mood: lonely, 1544 Views |  | Enjoy Reading...
Imagine that you've decided to build a fire, perhaps while you're camping, or at home in your fireplace. You carefully choose the logs, the kindling, and after a match to start the fire, you watch over it until you're sure the fire is burning strongly and steadily. Then you sit back and enjoy keeping the fire blazing, since it has enough fuel for now. But at some point, when you notice it's getting a little colder, or the light is growing dim, you realize that the fire needs your attention again. And so you rouse yourself from whatever you've been doing and more wood, or adjust the position of the logs so that, once more, the flames can rise high.
Even if you've neglected the fire for a while, even if it appears to have died out, you see that the embers still radiate a deep, orange glow that can only be created by hours of extreme heat. The embers are deceptive, and they contain great power within their quiet light. Although by themselves they produce no flames, they can ignite a newly added piece of wood in seconds, suddenly rekindling the full force of the fire, transforming the dormant coals into a roaring blaze.
We can learn a lot about the passion between two lovers by thinking about what we intuitively know about building and maintaining a fire. When you first meet someone and fall in love, you carefully court and seduce him or her, adding the right amount of intimacy, the perfect amount of commitment until the fire of passion flares up between your hearts and your bodies. For awhile, this blaze burns brightly on its own and you grow accustomed to the joy it brings into your life. How lucky we are, you tell yourself, to have such a passionate relationship!
But one day, you realize there is a less light, less heat between you and your mate, and that, in fact, it's been that way for some time. You don't feel the same intense degree of physical attraction, the same desire to unite, the same stimulation you once felt with each other. The passion is gone, you may conclude. I guess I've fallen out of love. This relationship is over.
How many people ask themselves, at this critical point in a love affair, if the fire of passion has died down simply because no one has been tending it, because no one has added the fuel necessary to keep it burning? How many people walk away from the smoking embers of their marriage, certain that the fire has died out, without noticing that the coals of love still contain enough heat to reignite into flames, if only they are given a chance?
Respect the fire of passion, the fire of love. Understand that to stay alive, it needs to be honored, to be cared for, to be tended as diligently as you would tend a fire you had built in the wilderness to help keep you warm and safe from harm. Feed the fire of your love with kindness, communication, appreciation and gratitude, and it will always blaze strong and brightly for you.... |
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| How To Get People To Like You??? |
Feb 15, 2008 10:31 pm
1436 Views |  | Happy Reading:
The basic principles of getting people to like you you need no prolonged and labored emphasis, for they are very simple and easily illustrate their own truth. However, I list ten practical rules for getting the esteem of others. The soundness of these principles has been demonstrated innumerable times. Practice them until you become expert at them and people will like you..
1. Learn to remember names, Inefficiency at this point may indicate that your interest is not sufficiently outgoing. A man's name is very important to him.
2. Be a comportable person so there is no strain in being with you--be an old-shoe, old-hat kind of individual. Be homey.
3. Acquire the quality of relaxed easy-goingness so that things do not ruffle you.
4. Don't be egotistical. Guard against giving the impression that you know it all. Be natural and normally humble.
5. Cultivate the quality of being interesting so that people will want to be with you and get something of stimulating value from their association with you.
6. Study to get the "scratchy" elements out of your personality, even those of which you may be unconscious.
7. Sincerely attempt to heal, on an honest Christian basis, every misunderstanding you have had or now have. Drain off your grievances.
8. Practice liking people until you learn to do so genuinely. Remember what others said, "I never met a man I didn't like." Try to be that way.
9. Never miss an opportunity to say a word of congratulation upon anyone's achievement, or express sympathy in sorrow or dissapointment.
10. Get a deep spiritual experience so that you have something to give people that will help them to be stronger and meet life more effectively. Give strength to people and they will give affection to you....
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| How To Break The Worry Habit |
Feb 12, 2008 7:12 am
Mood: cheerful, 1467 Views |  | Happy Reading!
To include this chapter in a manner designed to help you go to work now to break the worry habit, I list a ten-point worry-breaking formula.
1. Say to yourself, "Worry is just a very bad mental habit. And I can change any habit with God's help."
2. You became worrier by practicing worry. You can become free of worry by practicing the opposite and stronger habit of faith. With all the strength and perseverance you can command, start practicing faith.
3. How do you practice faith? First thing every morning before you arise say out loud, "I believe," three times.
4. Pray, using this formula, "I place this day, my life, my loved ones, my work in the Lord's hands. There is no harm in the Lord's hands, only good. Whatever happens whatever results, if I am in the Lord's hands it is the Lord's will and it is good."
5. Practice saying something positive concerning everything about which you have been talking negatively. Talk positively. For example, don't say, "This is going to be a terrible day. "Instead. affirm, "This is going to be a glorious day," Don't say, "I'll never be able to do that."
Instead, affirm, "With God's help I will do that."
6. Never participate in a worry conversation. Shoot an injection of faith into all your conversations. A group of people talking pessimistically can infect every person in a group of negativism. But by talking things up rather than down you can drive off that depressing atmosphere and make everyone feel hopeful and happy.
7. One reason you are a worrier is that your mind is literally saturated with apprehension thoughts, defeat thoughts, gloomy thoughts. To counteract, mark every passage in the Bible that speaks of faith, hope, happiness, glory, radiance. Commit each to memory. Say them over and over again until these creative thoughts saturate your subconscious will return to you what you have given it, namely, optimism, not worry.
8. Cultivate friendships with hopeful people. Surround yourself with friends who think positive, faith-producing thoughts and who contribute to a creative atmosphere. This will keep you restimulated with faith attitudes.
9. See how many people you can help to cure their own worry habit. In helping another to overcome worry you get greater power over it within yourself.
10.Every day of your life conceive of yourself as living in partnership and companionship with Jesus Christ. If He actually walked by your side, would you be worried or afraid? Well, then, say to yourself, "He is with me." Affirm aloud, "I am with you always."Then change it to say, "He is with me now." Repeat that affirmation three times a day....
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| Love or Infatuation? |
Feb 11, 2008 7:04 am
1553 Views |  | I want to share it with you. Happy Reading!
Infatuation is instant desire. It is one set of
glands calling to another. Love is friendship that
has caught fire. It takes root and grows--one day
at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you-- to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not separate you. You want him nearer. But near or far, you know he is yours and you can wait.
Infatuation says,"We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you will admit it is difficult to be in one another's company unless you are sure it will end in intimacy. Love is the maturation of friendship. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's cheating. Sometimes you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He feels that trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you do things you'll regret later, but love never will.
Love is an upper. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before.
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